I had the opportunity to grab lunch at a local eatery today and as I sat down I was greeted by a young woman who would be my server for the meal. The place I was eating is owned by a former client, whom I have done a great deal of business with, and is run in a roadhouse kind of manner. Its greasy food, cold beer, and weekend nights there is some form of live entertainment. In that spirit the official uniform is denim bottoms and some shirtlike clothing option bearing the eatery’s name on top. The unofficial policy is if you can pull it off then the more skin the better.
My server, also a former client who I am truly proud of with her having slaying some person demons was dressed to the unofficial perfection wearing jean shorts that just had the hint of skin where the rear and thigh meet and appeared drawn on in terms of close fitting. She also wore a cropped top proudly proclaiming the restaurants name across her breasts and exposing plenty of cleavage with a cut that acted like an arrow pointing at the writing. This young woman is beautiful and I accept that as a married man that’s a loaded statement. Then you get to her right shoulder and the hideous disfiguring tattoo that takes a large portion of it.
I will never understand how someone who is that attractive can disfigure their natural beauty with inking themselves. And I recognize that this is a controversial position in a lifestyle where at times tattooing is an accepted and even revered activity. My submissive has previously indicated her desire to get a white ink “his” tattooed under her wedding band in proclamation of her being Mine. I politely declined. And in all honesty I tend to be less Dominant with my sweetness when it comes to her appearance. Rarely do I dictate an outfit, and with her ongoing health and fitness attentions I don’t really need to make sure she is staying active and fit, but when it comes to body modifications I tend to draw a line. I have indicated I do not feel she needs any more piercings (she has her ears done in the lobes and has a navel piercing) and I expressly forbid her to tattoo herself, even in tribute to me.
I really have no strong reason, it is personal preference. But I am curious, am I alone in this just express forbidding, are there other Doms/Sirs out there that have said no to the modification? I don’t believe i am alone but figured I would write and put it out there.